13 Things I Was Wrong (and Right) About My First Year

Saturday, August 13, 2016




August is always a reflective time for me. I reflect on why I have no money in my checking account and why I continue to live in a place that is unbelievably and demonically hot. Every four Augusts I reflect on whether or not it's too late for me to join the U.S. gymnastics team. But mostly in August I reflect on the upcoming school year. This year, as I head into my 7th (SEVENTH, holy crabapples) year of teaching, I pause to think both about how much I’ve learned since my first year.

I also pause to think about how much I still feel like a total rookie.

I think that’s good, though. I’m wary of any teacher—whether they’re five years in or fifty—who claims to have it all figured out, like they’ve hit the ceiling of pedagogy and academia and there’s nothing left to learn. I may get to that level of expertise regarding a more finite area of study (say, Pop-Tart flavors*), but I will never even come close to knowing everything there is to know about teaching English.

That being said, I still know a lot more than I did my first year.

Below are some things I thought about teaching going into my first year. Most turned out to be wrong. Some turned out to be right.

 
13 Things I Was Wrong (and Right) About My First Year:


I don’t need to write my name on every classroom object I own. WRONG. Even (and especially) the doorstop.


Teaching is going to be like riding a bike—it’ll take a few tries and then be second nature. WRONG. And also, HAHAHAHAHA. It’s gotten a thousand times easier, no doubt, but if it’s ever as thoughtless and simple as riding a bike I’ll be a monkey’s uncle. Aunt. Stepchild. Whatever.


Failure is the scariest thing ever and I should avoid it at all costs. WRONG. My perfectionism hurt me for way too long in my rookie years. I’m learning this the hard way every day and have been for seven years but one of the most important things that teaching has taught me is this: failure always makes me better. Did you know at Google they give huge bonuses to teams that fail and celebrate their failure? What could all of us do and try if we celebrated not only our accomplishments, but our failures, too? 


All students need to succeed is love. WRONG. Love is, of course, a huge part of teaching. But if it were the only thing needed for students to succeed, my first year students would have been eating out of my hand by the second week of school (in reality, they practically ate my hand). Students need love, but they also need boundaries, and someone willing to teach those boundaries with a firm but caring approach. Like Catherine Cawood from Happy Valley.


I should not keep entire containers of trail mix in my desk. CORRECT. Or any snack I find delicious, for that matter.


Nah, I don’t really need an organizational system. WRONG. So wrong. The wrongest. I thought I would just figure it out as I go (which I did), but I so wish I’d had even a semblance of an idea of how to organize stuff my first year. P.S. here’s a post I wrote a while back for WeAreTeachers with all my organizational secrets!


Wow, I’m so brave for doing this! CORRECT. Teachers are brave. But I had no idea what brave meant until I met students who came to school every day despite absolutely crippling situations in their homes and real pain in their hearts. That’s bravery.


Maintaining a social life and working out will be a breeze while teaching. WRONG. *Glares at former self*  

No thanks, I don’t need more paper/dry erase markers/staplers. I think I have enough. Also wrong.


Students will return my pencils because they care about me. Hahahaha, WRONG. I know my students care about me, but the year—nay, the day—that I have the same number of classroom pencils I started out with is the day I quit teaching. Because I know I will be hallucinating.

Pencils are just one of those things I’ve learned to let go of. (Of which I’ve learned to let go. I hate English**.) Maybe when I get to heaven one day all my pencils will be returned to me. Sharpened, in bundles and without teethmarks, on the backs of unicorns galloping toward me.


Working hard, doing a good job, and being respectful will eventually earn me respect from my leaders in return. WRONG. I would say this way of operating worked with most of the leaders I’ve had in education. But I’ve been in so many situations and environments where I have worked tirelessly, followed even the craziest of the rules, showed respect when it wasn’t due, and still got trampled. I think what I’ve learned, though, is that even when it’s not earning me anything return, working hard and being kind is always worth it in the long run. (But that’s a difficult thing to remember when you’ve got a boot over your head.)


The best part of my job will be my students. CORRECT. Correct, correct, correct. Times infinity.


I will change the world with my profession! UNDECIDED. On the good days, yes, I believe this. But on the bad days, when I hear uninformed politicians talking about education, or I learn of more budget cuts, or when policies begin to lean toward tying the hands of teachers instead of trusting them, I wonder if anything I do will matter. I wonder if the voices of teachers, who represent the voices of future generations, will ever matter.


Luckily, I don’t have much time to wonder. Over 3.1 million teachers and I too busy changing the world anyway.

Have a great year out there, teacherfriends. Make it the best one ever.


Love,


Teach


*best: blueberry with frosting. Worst: most of the chocolate varieties.
**Just kidding, English. I love you.

52 comments:

  1. YES!! Blueberry with frosting!!!
    and YES to every other paragraph, too.

    p.s. I'm 20+ years in. =)

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  2. Keep up the great work. I'm into my 37th year. Still don't know everything. If there was nothing new to learn it would be boring. Cheers.

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  3. I am just starting my second year teaching high school English! I read your entire blog while student teaching for a year, and kept up with it during this past year, too. I absolutely love it and all of your hilarious and inspirational stories!

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  4. Love it. A couple of my thoughts: Re the snacks: also WRONG because the mice will finish them if you don't. And the markers? WRONG - YOU NEVER EVER HAVE ENOUGH MARKERS. NEVER. GO BUY SOME MORE NOW! ; )

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  5. Thank you. THANK YOU. I just started my second year and I think these all still ring true. I switched from a tech job for the government to teaching English. I feel SO LOST. My students are amazing, but half the time I'm like "Pretend it's on the lesson plan". JUST THANK YOU FOR THIS BLOG.

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  6. Thank you so much !!! It's my second year...I used to be a journalist and I feel lost :( Your blog is the best !

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  7. LOVE this blog! I am a retired teacher and I say right on to everything above! I can also tell you that you will change the world, at least for some people. And down the line your kids will make you proud. A friend shared your blog on FB. It is on FB that I see what many of my former charges are up to, and they make me burst with pride and happiness every day. And now I find myself being very proud of someone I have never met. You rock, Teach!

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  8. Love the Happy Valley reference! Spot on with my pencils waiting for me in heaven:)

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  9. Thank you so much for this! I've been teaching for more than 10 years now and everything you've talked about couldnt be truer! Thank you once again!

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  10. This is my first year, and on the first day, the teacher in the classroom beside me (who is on her 5th year) looked me in the eye and said, you will never end the day with the same amount of pencils you started with. When I read it here, I about died laughing.

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  11. Your blog is one of my favorite things to read. I have never laughed so hard as I do at some of the things you share. With all those jaded coworkers, it's comforting to know that someone else sees the hilarious side of teaching that I see too. And I'd like to think that if we worked at the same school, we'd be best friends. We have a lot in common - you're awesomely hilarious and I'm also kinda awesome and kinda hilarious. Oh, and you're a teacher, and I'm a teacher. See? Lots in common! We'd be the Dynamic Duo, unstoppable and fearless. People would tell legends of us long after we were gone... And faculty meetings would be way more fun next to each other. Just sayin'.

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  13. You are hilarious! I have NO social life during the school year. It is painful and the former sorority girl version of me is crying franzia tears and blowing her nose with lilly pulitzer toilet paper.

    I have been reading your blog since I started my first year of teaching which was two years ago. I was struggling in a new city with a classroom full of students similar to how you have described yours in the past. Your blog let me know I'm not the only one out there...

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